Friends, Real Friends, Frenemies-
This is the hardest one yet! yes! My 30 Day Blog Challenge is still going! Today's topic, FRIENDS. Those non-blood-related family, that you spend time with.
I am not one of those people that have tons of friends, but if I have to say how real friends I have, I could say I have 3 best friends(2 guys and a girl) those are the 3 people I can call at anytime and they are always there for me, no questions ask, and vice-versa. I am always here for them.
"As we grow, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones". Now, what are real friends? What characteristics define what a "Real Friend" is? Remember, life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they aren’t even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most. (http://www.marcandangel.com)
Now as we can see from the paragraph above, we can clearly distinguish what are friends and what are real friends (which we can also call best friends). They are those who face problems together, give what they can because they truly care, make time for each other, offer each other freedom, communicate effectively, accept each other as is, support each other’s growth changes, believe in each other, give what they can because they truly care, make time for each other, offer each other freedom, communicate effectively, accept each other as is, support each other’s growth changes, believe in each other, maintain realistic expectations of their relationship, honor each other in small ways on a regular basis, They listen, and they hear every word, They keep their promises, most importantly they stick around.(http://www.marcandangel.com)